Monday, September 12, 2016

This Week and a Bean Reunion

I basically took a summer vacation from my blog.  No big deal... except a lot of fun stuff happened and I need to document it!  We have kind of had a crazy summer where I feel like I have been flying by the seat of my pants trying to figure out my life.  But the seasons are changing and with that I feel like I am getting a fresh start in a new season.

Hopefully.

So I'm going to try to catch up one vacation/month at a time, how does that sound?



In June it was my birthday!  I am now a grand 26 years old.  Logan got me a few things but one of my favorite things was when he took me to the mall and told me to pick out a necklace.  I thought that was pretty fun.  And Elsy helped out and somehow ended up getting a necklace of her own as well.  On the official day of my birthday we spent most of the day packing and driving to Tri-Cities.  That was the week of the Bean Reunion and we drove the first three hours to my parents house and then spent the whole next day in the car driving to Eden, Utah where the reunion was.


Tommy really knows how to party I guess...


So we spent a day at my parents house and can I just say, I wish we lived where they do!?  They really know how to have a real summer... none of this rain, rain, rain, few short weeks of sun, and then "Oh my goodness! Are the leaves already changing and its only the end of July?!"  (Yes, I am not joking this actually happened here in Issaquah... excuse me while I vomit.)  Anyway, I took a picture while laying in the pleasant grass.  So beautiful!  Its like a carpet.   Not a soggy, patchy, weedy, area like here but an  actual spot to sit on the ground outside without getting your bum wet.


We only spent a day at my parents before we left but my kids love their cousins.  My sister Sharee moved in with my parents while her husband travels around for the next year doing clinical rotations all over the north west.  So there are even more cousins there to love.


Auntie Lenise was home from college for the summer as well.  Here she is hosting an iPad session. ;)


On Tuesday we packed up and headed to Utah.  We were really nervous because we haven't done a long drive like that since Elsy was three months old and just really didn't know what to expect.  I prepared by getting them new, cheap toys to keep their attention.  I bought some fun magnets and put them on a cookie sheet.  I was really excited about that one but this picture of Elsy smiling was the first minute she had it out, and the second minute was her saying something along the lines of, "Mom, this is the most boring thing in the world and what do you expect me to do with all this?  Can't I just have the iPad back?"  Whatever.

They did amazing in the car though and were pretty content to just watch a lot of movies, eat a lot of M&Ms from Logan's trail mix and listen while I read them a million books I got at the library.


The cabin was BEAUTIFUL!  I had never heard of Eden but it is located just on the other side of the mountains from Orem.  Logan's sister Holly lives in Orem so she set the whole thing up.  The weather was just magic and we were content to just hang out in the yard all day.  Logan put together a contraption to try and make large bubbles and this is a picture of them out playing with it.  Elsy had a big bat she would try to hit them with and kept shouting something about it being the "BEST DAY EVERRR!" before throwing the bat in the air.


There was also a slack line at the cabin that all of us adults did almost all day long while the kids played around. Here is Marshall helping Elsy. One day Tommy came running to me a little concerned and I noticed ants crawling all over his body.  He had been standing on an ant hill.  I started stripping his clothes off and found some even in his diaper but luckily he wasn't bit or stung.  We had a good laugh at how fast we got his clothes off.


We did about one outing a day and that turned out to be just perfect.  We drove into Orem one of the days to go to the Dinosaur Museum.  That was a ton of fun!  And apparently very memorable  because today, before naps, Elsy told me all about the T-Rex and the Triceratops that were fighting there.  They had a large, electronic t-rex and triceratops that were getting ready to fight in the opening area and Elsy and Tommy were blown away.  I still wonder if they thought they were real...


Elsy just kept roaring.  If you can see her little mouth she is in the very act when I took this picture.  She didn't want to leave that room and we had to go back a few times because it was just so exciting for her.


Something nice about traveling to see family is there are always a bunch of babysitters!  Haha!  And they are so willing to watch the kids because they never see them.  Rachel chased Tommy all around for us.


I wondered if anything in that museum was really real, haha!  Everything seemed to be replicas but the kids didn't mind and I didn't feel bad letting them crawl all over replicas... real bones I would have thought twice about.


Outside of the museum was a big playground with dionos you could climb on and things.  Here is Logan and all his siblings: Rachel, Marshall, Hiatt (who got off his mission like a week before the reunion!), and Holly (with her newborn Jonah).  We were sad that Logan's brother Gordon and their family couldn't make it.  Gordon did fly down for about a day so that he could participate in Jonah's baby blessing so that was really cool.


There were also big statues of dinosaurs all over the place and we spent some time walking through those.  Haha, Tommy just loved them all.


One of my favorite parts of probably my entire summer, though, was sitting with Elsy in the sand pit digging for 'fossils'.  Everyone went to have our packed dinner but Elsy had already eaten her food as she walked around so she and I sat and talked while we dusted for bones.  It was so peaceful and it just felt like time stood still.  While I was sitting there getting dust brushed into my face (Elsy wasn't really careful about where she swept!) I just kept thinking, "This is what life is all about!"  I know someday Elsy wont want to sit with me and sweep out dino eggs for 45 minutes straight, but I hope that our relationship is always one where she can feel trusted and loved and in return trust and love me.


After a while, Logan and Tommy came back to us and helped us uncover some more eggs. :)


The next day we went to a fun petting zoo that was there in Eden.  Each kid got a little bucket of food to feed any animal they wanted and they just went crazy!


We got to hold baby sheep and kittens, and feed goats, chickens, pigs, etc all by hand and I think I was having more fun than the kids haha!  Someday I want my own zoo I think... :P

Along with the admission the kids also each got to go on a horse ride.  Neither of my kids have ever done that before and it was really fun.  Tommy loved it, Elsy not so much.  She got on and kept saying "I'm getting nervous!" and "I'm scared!"  About three steps in she started crying but the lady leading the horse kept going so we just did the whole ride with Elsy bawling.  She did start to calm down a little toward the end and got excited to feed the horse a little apple bite so that was good.  She has shown quite the fear of all things animal and I am worried because I love all things animal.  I am trying to be patient, though, and hopefully she will get excited about them soon!


There were old buggies and tractors all around for the kids to climb up and on.


Elsy's car toy she got was a Rapunzel soft doll.  She carried it all around with her for the first half of the trip.


We also went on little walks and even did a little hike up on a trail we found.  Logan and I are starting to have a little itch to hike and are still figuring out logistics of how to do that with Elsy.  Tommy does pretty good in the backpack but Elsy likes to walk and she is a very slow walker.


The third outing we went on was to a water park in Orem.  That was a ton of fun because the water was super shallow in a lot of places and the kids could just roam everywhere.


Cousin Ella was so fun to play with and she was always giving little hugs and was just so chipper all the time.  We love her!


Half way through the week Grandpa and Grandma Atkin came up to stay with us.  We hadn't seen them in a while so it was fun to get to chat with them.  Last time we saw them was when Elsy was Tommy's age!


When Grandma Atkin is around there are always card games and we had a lot of fun playing all sorts of games.


In the evenings we would go sit out in the hot tub and have some interesting conversations.  Something I love about Logan's family is they are always delving so deep into things and they are all so book smart that I learn so much every time we have one of those deep conversations.  They came to be known as the Hot Tub Talks while we were there.


On Sunday Jonah Hanes was blessed and so we had a luncheon at the cabin with lots of relatives.  Logan's Grandma Bean was there so we had to take a picture with her!  Grandpa Bean was also named Thomas.


And here are the kids with Great Grandpa and Ma Atkin!


And I had to add this one because Tommy is getting a special kiss and his face looks so peaceful.  


I can't believe after that whole week I didn't end up with any pictures of Elsy or Tommy with Logan's parents!  I am realizing we are great at taking candid photos but are terrible at taking photos where everyone looks at the camera and smiles.  I think that is going to be my new goal, because its so important and fun to see peoples faces!  Here is our tribute to Grandma Bean because Elsy is wearing her glasses. ;)


Logan bought me the game pie face a few weeks before the trip so we brought it.  Elsy sat with Great Grandpa Atkin and played it (without cream) forever.  It was to funny.

We were sad to leave but were grateful to get to see everyone and can't wait until next years reunion!


Here is a cute picture of my cute boy.

Now!  Flash forward to this last week!  We have been preparing for a few things over here in this house.


Elsy is starting Joy School!  I bought her a tracing book this summer to learn how to correctly hold a pencil.  She wakes up before Tommy does at nap time and will sit on the bed next to me and trace.  She has asked every day if Joy School is tomorrow yet.  I am so excited for her but also don't know what I will do without her around.  Tommy already gets so sad when I take her to play dates and he is with me alone.  He just wanders around saying, "Za Za!!" (That's how he says her name) and cries when he doesn't get out too.


I can't figure out how to rotate this picture.  Anyways, Tommy is really getting into the pillow thing.  He always is climbing into Elsy's toddler bed and snuggling into her pillow.  So I bought another one and let him practice with it.  Here he is on the floor.  Once he lay like this for forever we decided to start putting it in his crib to practice for naps.  The last few nights we have let him keep it and he just loves it.


I made him a cars pillow case and that sealed the deal!  


When we went to the store to get fabric we also stopped off at Old Navy to get Elsy some winter boots (because it is already freezing in the mornings here!)  While I was sitting on the floor helping Elsy with her shoes I started noticing a gross wet drip on the ground next to me.  I looked up to see this so I quickly snapped a picture.  We laughed and laughed and so he kept doing it.  The poor lad is teething and has two new teeth finally but has had a rough time of it.  And now he has a nasty cold.  Elsy is on the tail end but Tommy is feeling it bad.


On Friday during morning scripture reading Logan was reading about Alma spending time teaching his sons Helaman, Shiblon, and Corianton... I think thos are their names.  Anyway he said something about, "Isn't it great to spend time with your parents one on one?" and I just added, "Like you and Daddy are tonight on your date!"  Logan just looked at me and we had a laugh.  He has been wanting to take her out on a little date for a while but we keep forgetting so we laughed and finally had a set time.  That night!  Elsy was so excited and I let her wear her church dress.  He took her to Ben & Jerry's for ice cream.  She had so much fun but kept saying afterward, "I NEVER WANT TO GO ON A DATE AGAIN!!!"  We took a recording so we can hold it over her head when she is 16.


On Saturday we went out as a family and walked around Bellevue.  Poor Logan probably didn't realize how much entertaining he would have to do when he married me.  I have to get out of the house EVERY day or I go stir crazy.  And I often lean on Logan to think of what to do.  He never disappoints though with his fun ideas.  Last weekend we went dream house hunting, and he took me to visit my family on the spur of the moment.  This weekend we went to Bellevue and walked around the Downtown Park and then shopped around Bellevue Square.  Then we went out for lunch at Chipotle.


My kids loved the water fountain!


This Sunday was a rough one for us.  Right before church Elsy reached up to grab some of my makeup and put her hand right into the open mouth of my straightener that was set at 375 degrees.  She got several burns all on different angles of her hand but the worst was a big blister on her thumb.  It was so so very sad.  After soaking her hand in the water pitcher from the fridge for a while we arrived late for church.  I put some stickers on a zip lock bag with ice in it (she was nervous about that for some reason) and she carried that with her all through nursery. 


Tommy was also not feeling good at all.  He just cried and cried and cried and even though he is old enough for Nursury he still has never gone for the full time on his own yet.  We walk him around the temple and I rock him to sleep in the mothers lounge since church is in the middle of nap time  He was just miserable all day.  It was just one of those days where you can't wait to get to bed.


We went to feed the ducks at Yellow Lake because sometimes when the kids are going ballistic it helps to get them out of the house and distracted so you all can survive the last few moments before bed time.  Luckily that trip ended with Tommy doing a face plant in the gravel and getting two horns on his head (as seen above).  He woke up this morning with a big scab but the second horn has gone down some.

I am starting to teach piano lessons this week.  Its just something I have always wanted to try out, and with money getting tight in these parts we thought it would be something to try.  I have been wanting more money to get our food storage in order so we are going to be using it for that.  I have just been feeling really strongly this summer that that is something I need to do.  So we are!  Its coming together slowly but surely.  I am a little nervous to start piano but I think once we get going I will really enjoy it.  If anyone has a beginner piano student in the area let me know!  I would be glad to take them on! :)

My goal this week is to not complain.  I have been focusing on trying to ask the Lord what he wants for me each day and while I was taking the sacrament this week that was something that came to my mind.  I keep praying to be more positive about what we go through each day but I realize I haven't been taking any action to be more positive... just expecting it to happen.  So if you hear me complain this week, give me a whack!  I think I will probably need the reminder...(Now that I am writing this I am realizing how many times I complained about the weather and how bad my Sunday was and what not just in this blog post... oops... maybe I need to pray for more reminders to keep my goal haha!)

Well I feel like this post was a quick skim but I really wanted to get back in the habit of doing my journaling.  I am to lazy to re-read today and check for spelling errors so sorry about those.  Tommy  is waking up from his nap though so I best get back to my life.  Hopefully once I'm caught up I will be able to share a little better what we are doing from day to day. :)  

Sunday, June 5, 2016

Memorial Weekend

Guys, having a family means some good times and some bad times.  And we had plenty of both the last two weeks.  But I am here to focus on the GOOD TIMES! Yaya

For Memorial Weekend our good friends the Woodhouses invited us to join them in Lincoln City, OR at their family's lake house.  



Since we have plenty of trips in store for this summer I bought those cool car seat desks you may have seen around.  They were pretty awesome, although they didn't fit very snugly on our Nexfit car seats.  It was awesome for Elsy but Tommy soon got fed up with it.


The lake house was AMAZING!  This is the only photo I have of the outside, and this was the back.  We were right on Devil's Lake.  And in the background you cans see a bridge and on the other side of the bridge was the ocean.  It was SO much fun to be on a freshwater lake and get to do all the stuff associated with lake vacations and then be in walking distance (like a 5 min walk) to the beach!  Double vacation, yeah?



The cabin had everything we needed for a good time including a paddle boat!


Elsy sat in the back and then I just held onto the handle on the back of Tommy's life jacket and let him climb all around.  It kinda made my arm sore but it was so much fun.


They were sort trips on the lake because Tommy really didn't last very long.  He has been getting his molars in and thus was the biggest crankster gangster for the weekend.  And then the two days after we got back her cried like, all day long.  But the last two days have been a dream because the molar he was working on finally popped through.  He has been so chipper and happy and I have missed him so much.  I was super bummed to feel his final molar this morning is about to start cutting.  Right before our next long trip to Utah.  Ugh.



The weather was cold the first two days we were there but then the next three were amazing.  I have been going to the Oregon Coast for every summer my entire life (I have only missed one year since I was born!) and the weather was as good as it gets there.  So much fun letting the kids get all sandy.


Logan dug a hole and put his legs in with Tommy.  Tommy is standing up here.


The kids got to go jet skiing for the first time!  Elsy loved it, except she didn't like to go fast.


I loved seeing her little eyes peep up over the side.


Tommy was so jealous that we just had to let him have a turn.  That boy is so into cars and all things fast.

Logan and I also got to go out together while the kids napped and some of our friends watched them.  That jet ski was the fastest jet ski I have ever been on.  It was so fun to ride!


We only went to the beach twice but the kids just loved it.  Tommy found a rock that he grew quite attached to.


Elsy stole my sun hat and has been keeping it in her dress up box.  I brought it for her to use since I don't have a hat for her right now.  I just loved how it covered her all up.




Logan likes to dig holes.  He dug all the way down to the damp sand.


The fun thing about this beach was that the lake drained into the ocean.  So there was this little freshwater river that cut through the sand.  That was fun because it wasn't sticky like the salt water of the ocean and it was shallow for the kids to play in.  Sadly the clouds and wind came in right before the kids went in.  Poor Tommy just shook and shook but bawled his eyes out when we finally got him out.


The cabin also had some paddle boards and kayaks, too.  I went paddle boarding for the first time and absolutely loved it.  On Sunday I took a nap with the kids while Logan went out on the paddle boat.  He said it perfect when he said it feels just like you are taking a walk on the water.  I woke up to a bouquet of water lilies and wild roses.  He even braided some reeds together at the base to make a hand hold.  :) 

We also enjoyed going shopping at the outlet mall and eating at J's Fish 'n Chips - the BEST fish 'n chips you will ever have.  We also went out to Moe's Famous Clam Chowder House.  We had so much fun with our friends!


On the trip home we decided to drive up to the Tillamook Cheese Factory for some good ole cheese and ice cream.  


Elsy loved it there, but Tommy hated staying cooped up in the stroller.  There were soooooo many people there.


Mmm, never buy anything but Tillamook for cheese and ice cream when we go to the store.  It is our one brand we are super loyal to. ;)


The sign said don't climb the cow... :P

Sadly there was terrible traffic.  We left the cabin at 11am and didn't get home until after 9pm.  Gross.  We did stop for dinner and the cheese factory... but seriously!  I hate traffic.  There were so many accidents.  I always have to remind myself that traffic means something really sad for the families that were involved with an accident and that I need to be grateful, not impatient.

Luckily the kids slept awesome when we got home.  In fact, Elsy has stayed in her room at night all week long!  It is the greatest miracle of all time!  But Tommy has been sleeping in our closet.  I am going to switch him back tomorrow night I think?  I am just a little worried because since he has moved to our room he has been waking up once a night and wants me to give him a drink and then pat his back until he falls asleep.... which when I put him back in Elsy's room that will wake her up and we might start the zombie cycle again.  We shall see.... praying for this sleep trial to be almost over!!


My children have discovered the magical world of dress ups.  One of the ladies I visit teach, Melissa, gave us a bunch of old dress ups that my kids have totally died over.


Elsy is constantly switching from being a princess to a super hero to a fairy with wings.  Most of today she has been a dolphin.


I love her super hero/princess/mommy combo.

Elsy says the cutest things these days.  She just loves to chat.  The other day she was holding her stuffed animal and examining it and announced, "Feet live out of our bum bum."  Her bear didn't really have legs and I couldn't help but laugh.

Both of my kiddos have a terrible time at mealtime eating their food, even if they like it!  Elsy just never wants to eat at the table.  Logan came up with an ingenious way to get her to eat that has kept her fed for the last few months.  If she isn't eating he will tell her a made up story.  The key is to keep plenty of suspense, and at a super suspenseful part he will open his mouth and say "Ah!" and she will have to eat a bite really quick to hear what comes next.  She gets so excited about it and the stories Logan comes up with are quite interesting to say the least.


On Friday we went to an amazing park in Renton with my aunt Kaylene and her two boys and my Grandma Merkley, who was in town.


It has been so hot this week!  And there was no shade at this park.  But the kids had a blast nonetheless.


Tommy was so cute with my grandma.  He would run up to her and give her hugs!  He doesn't do that for anyone!  I loved it and I hope she did too. :)


The pool at our complex opened and we have been to swim twice this week.  I love it because it has a gargantuan kiddie pool!  It is perfect for the kids to get antiquated with the water.  I have to keep reminding myself not to force Elsy to get her face wet.  She is still trying to feel her way around the pool and is slowly gaining confidence.  Tommy, on the other hand, would be dead by now if I hadn't been around to snag him every time he gets to excited.


This morning we made frozen yogurt covered raspberries and blueberries.  It was a very hard activity to do while fasting, I will tell you.  I worked so hard for this picture to have them both look.  Ugh, Elsy and Tommy do not cooperate when it comes to taking pictures. 


Sadly all of us only had one or two after they were frozen before we decided they were just to cold to bite into.  Ah well, it was a fun try.  I am after new ideas for healthy kid snacks... or adult too!


And I had to include this picture because of Elsy's hilarious bunny teeth smile.

As always, I am trying to slow down.  I have been reminding myself that my kids are only kids once.  I recently read a quote attributed to Marjory Hinkley that says something along the lines of, "Sat yes as often as possible to your kids because they are only kids once."  I realized I say no so often and so quickly when they ask for things and I have been realizing my "no' really has no base except that maybe I don't feel like doing it.  I have been trying hard to remember this each day as I parent.  And also am trying to slow down and find joy in the little things, like when I rock my kids before bed time or when they run and sit on my lap to read a book.  I have been learning to take a deep breath and cherish those little moments and remember that they are just little people who want to be loved and understood just as much as I do... they just do it in a different way.  It breaks my heart when I realize Elsy is telling me a story about something that happened to her and she is half way through and I haven't even been listening because I was doing the dishes or something else.  I really want to try harder to pay more attention to the kid's needs.

One of the other things I have been working on is staying busy.  My friend Camille told me once that our bodies can physically do more than your brain thinks it can.  We were talking about lifting weights and working out but I started realizing how this is true in life in general.  My body often proves my brain wrong when it thinks I need more sleep but I am able to still get through a day with little sleep.  Or when I am running and I force myself to keep going to that milestone up ahead even when my brain is screaming it can't be done.  I have also noticed this to be true with other things like spiritual trials.  Even when my brain doesn't think I can't keep going through what I am going through, my body and spirit continue to surprise me.  Logan and I are working on pushing ourselves to get more done each day.  There are so many times that I put the kids to bed and think, "Finally!  Now I can just rest for the evening."  But as I have been reading the family book my Grandma Volmer gave me I have been amazed over and over at what my ancestors were required to do in a day, and were therefore capable of doing in a day.  It has inspired me to make better use of my day, even after the kids are in bed for nap time or in bed for the evening.  My goal is to just make better use of my time.  Today Logan and I deleted all social media off of our phones so we don't have that option at our fingertips constantly.  Logan has been reading his scriptures more and I have been writing in my journal.  Logan has been around to help put the kids to bed and we have spent more time as a family going out.  I am also trying to read more books instead of pointless blogs or peoples obnoxious opinions. Haha.  I am excited for us as we start this new goal to be more productive with our time, even when we think we can't.  Wish us luck!