Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Utah Weddings

August 12th was Logan and my 6th wedding anniversary.  We spent the whole day of it in the car, driving to Utah.  The kids gave us the gift of being absolute angels on the 12 hour drive.  On Friday we drove three hours to Tri Cities and then did the other nine on Saturday.  I couldn't believe how well behaved they were.  We checked out 36 books from the library and they spent hours reading books, playing with little toys my sister Leisha gave us (she was cleaning out her toy room), coloring pictures, watching movies, playing on the iPad, and connecting magnet tiles.  Logan and I got to just talk and talk and talk which was a fun, long, anniversary date type thing to do.

Our destination was Ogden and we got there in the evening.  We had a pit stop to Chick-Fil-A before arriving at Logan's sister Holly's house.  Her and her husband just bought a home and it was so fun to see how they had decorated and had been doing their own DIYs.  Logan and I were instantly jealous (we want to live in our own house so bad sometimes) and just loved sitting out in the back yard while the kids played on the swing set and ate apples off the trees.


We got to walk to church on Sunday.  It is always so funny to me to see all the church buildings so close to each other out there.  Your neighborhood is your ward out there.


After church we had a super yummy dinner that Holly and Jacob made.  Rachel and Marshall came out to see us and we all went to the Ogden temple.  This trip we got to visit lots of temples and church history sites and I thought it was really nice.  We had been planning on going to the Oregon Coast for my family's reunion but Logan's brother Hiatt's wedding date ended up falling on the same week for that trip.  We decided it would be far to much driving if we tried to do the Oregon Coast and Utah both in the same week.  After talking it over we decided to just spend the week there with Holly and have a different kind of family vacation.


Pretty Elsy girl.


This kid has a ferocious smile.  I had to include it with his soft smile photo too. :)


We have been taking family photos in front of temples and I think it is so fun.  I am going to have to start a temple family picture bucket list for us!  It was just a gorgeous temple, so peaceful there.  


Cloud gazing.  After almost two weeks of smoky haze in Washington it was really nice to finally see the blue sky again.  The smoke started clearing up somewhere in Idaho for us.


Logan loved the reflection pool.


The next day we went to the Hill Air Museum.  Holly found us some scavenger hunts next to a sign that said "Please return".  We got excited about doing the hunts with the kids and imagined returning them to get some type of 'reward'.  I feel like I barely saw anything there because I was so busy with Elsy trying to find the (super) hard picture matches of random parts of airplanes and helicopters.  Haha, we had so much fun!  So we weren't to disappointed when we tried to turn them back in at the front desk and the elderly man there said, "Well, I guess give yourself a pat on the back."  Apparently the 'Please Return' sign was for the pens...  Holly and I had a good laugh and she passed out fruit snacks so the kids wouldn't be too disappointed.


All the kids packed onto our stroller.  Elsy has been having some rather interesting faces for photos lately.  There she is with her scavenger hunt page.  After I got out of the shower one morning I found tons of pictures of her and her cousin Ella with various hilarious poses.  I was sad they were all so blurry or I would have posted some!


We had to go to Lehi to see our good buddies the Carruths.  We miss them so much and we were so glad they had us over.  They even took us all out to eat at Zupas.  Let me just say, I never thought I would find a replacement for our Panara comfort food but I do believe we have.  Such a yummy place!

And also, my husband is just like, super hott in that picture, right? :)


We decided to have a parent table and a kid table.  I felt a little guilty because we made all the kids sandwiches and snacks so we wouldn't have to buy them a bunch of food they wouldn't eat.  We set them up with a movie so we could have an 'adult date' haha!  It worked really well.


After we all went swimming together.  Tommy's and Nora's lips are still purple because it was quite freezing.  Andrea and I didn't get in but when Logan got out he was shaking all over just like the kids.


Cache and Elsy taking a selfie.  Oh dear.  Elsy was just so excited to see him.  When we first arrived in Utah she kept asking "Which house is Cache's house?" all over the streets of Ogden.  We have really missed having him over for her so much.


I think we ate out at least half the meals on our trip.  I don't really care, it was oh so yummy.  Holly took us to this little bakery that had the most amazing cinnamon rolls.  The raspberry cream cheese ones were to die for.


About halfway through the week David and Natalie showed up.  It was starting to become wedding preparation time!  We stayed up late playing Snake Oil and getting some really good laughs.


We went to a fun water park there in Odgen with Grandpa and the Hanes.


I think this was one of my favorite activities.  The water was the perfect temperature and the weather was too.  Logan and I just sat in the shallow water while the kids swam around.  We even talked them in to doing the big slide with us.  Elsy was pretty nervous but after the first time down she didn't want to stop.  The pools here in Issaquah are always freezing and to me just are not the best quality.  I never feel comfortable in them, even when it is really hot out. But that pool was just so great!  It was so relaxing to be there.



At the beginning of the week, when we went to Holly's ward, a woman shared that she had gone to get fish pedicures in Layton.  Holly and I had been trying to think of something fun for Logan and I to do on our anniversary date (which Holly graciously offered to watch our kids).  When we heard the lady say that I knew that was what I wanted to do!  The soonest appointment wasn't until Thursday so I was excited about it all week.  I didn't tell Logan what we were doing until we were standing in the aquarium foyer.  On the drive over Logan looked at me and said, "I just don't know if this is something I should be excited for or if I need to be pumping myself up for something out of my comfort zone."  I laughed and said he needed to be prepared to do something out of his comfort zone.  We laughed and laughed while the little doctor fish nibbled all over our legs and feet.  Logan was hunched over the whole time with his hands under his knees.  Thankfully it was only 15 minutes.  I thought it was fun at first but by the end I kept shaking my legs to get them off!  After a while it started to almost sting a bit?  Even though they don't have any teeth, their little jaws were gnawing away.  And when they stayed in one spot it got a little to much, or when they nibbled on Logan's leg hairs!

Holly and Jacob kindly gave us a gift card to Red Lobster they said they were never going to use.  So we had a fish themed date.  Yum!  I just love sea food!  We decided it was our Oregon Coast meal in Utah.


Logan bought a game called Splatoon for the Switch while we were there.  The kids begged and begged to play "Squid Kids!" as they call it.  It is basically a paintball game.  I found them all with controllers watching Logan play while us women folk tried to plan for what to do with all the kids for the wedding luncheon.


On Friday we headed out to Salt Lake City do do the Mormon tourist thing.  Just as we were about to leave I found all the kids outside with Grandma, washing the windows with newspapers.  They were too cute!


The first thing we saw when we walked onto temple square, besides the temple, was this fellow up in a tree.  Look closely, it's Hiatt! Logan's brother.  He works on the temple grounds and was already hanging Christmas lights in August, the day before his wedding.  


Elsy was excited to see the temple.  Tommy was more interested in eating cheddar bunnies.  But we did get a few good smiles out of him.


The family photo.  :)


And there he is, wishing for his cheddar bunnies and having to take yet another photo.


Here we have Tommy, who graduated to graham cracker bunnies (he somehow was starving).  It was fun talking to Elsy and Tommy about the different sites.  Elsy had learned about the seagulls and crickets story in primary so we stopped at the fountain that memorializes that event.


How I love these three!  Elsy was interested in all the sister missionaries around.  We told her she could go and ask each one she saw where they were from.  She really like that!


I think Elsy got a lot more out of this trip than Tommy did, which was what we expected.  He is only two and a half, after all.



This is my favorite picture from the trip.  If you look closely, Elsy is on her tip-toes just gazing up with so much interest and Tommy was actually interested in the Christus too, and His "owies".


We were exhausted and pretty hangry by lunch time.  The Hanes as well as Logan's parents came out to meet us around then.  We went to City Creek mall to have some lunch at Kneaders and then let the kids get all their wiggles out at the indoor playground.  


Tommy was so happy to be well fed and out of the stroller.


Logan was happy to just put his feet up and relax.  This poor guy.  I just love doing the tourist thing.  But sadly I just run my family into the ground in my excitement to see everything.  I try to only do one tourist day during our vacations (like our New York day when we were in New Jersey) but then I try to fit it all in one day.  Haha, Logan is such a trooper and I am always grateful he is still willing to go on these outings with me.


While we were at lunch I got a text from my aunt Siska.  She had run into Natalie and they had recognized each other on Temple Square.  What a coincidence!  I hadn't seen them in a few years so we hurried over to say hi after lunch.  My aunt Geneil was visiting from Canada so we got to see the whole crew!  My mom's sisters are so much fun and I was glad for the little meeting, even if it was for so short a time.


Our next stop was the Church History Museum.  It has been updated since I was last there.  They had an awesome kids area upstairs and so many interesting things to read and see.  Too much to see and read though, when you have tire kiddies. ;)


Our final stop was the Conference Center.  It is always funny for me to see because it feels exactly like the BYU-I Center from college, just bigger.


One of Elsy's amazing poses.

That night we stayed at a hotel there in Salt Lake, thanks to Logan's grandparents.  We ordered a little to much Thai Food (my absolute favorite though!) and I think we ended up feeding half the hotel!  Haha, a lot of Logan's aunts, uncles, and cousins were all staying there.  They stayed up late playing cards downstairs and then Logan went to Hiatt's bachelor party and stayed out a little late.  I stayed in our room with the kids eating chocolate covered coconut almonds and trying my hand at "Squid Kids" hehe!

The next day was the wedding!


I think this picture accurately sums up how my kids felt about the wedding.  Tommy was just done with life and Elsy was over the moon with wonder a excitement.


Some of Jen's bridesmaids watched our kids while we went to the wedding inside the temple.  It was a beautiful ceremony.  The room was completely packed and Logan's dad was able to seal Hiatt and Jen.


When we got out of the temple the kids were a little anxious, Tommy was just super tired.  None of us had slept well at the hotel.  Elsy was scared and Logan let her in our bed.  She was sleeping soundly between us which was cozy, or so I thought, until Tommy woke up.  He kept fussing off and on for like an hour and I finally got it out of him that he had to "poop".  Well it turns out he didn't have to do that, but I hadn't realized his diaper was wet and had leaked all over his pjs and bedding.  So after changing him, he also ended up in bed with us.  It was quite the squishy affair.  We were all very tired the next day!  


Okay, so the Salt Lake Temple is beautiful and all, but I think if Elsy ever tells me she wants to get married there I am going to have to say no.  Haha!  Both times I have been for a wedding it has been like the above picture, absolutely packed!  I loved that Logan and my wedding was in a little temple and felt so much more intimate maybe?  There were many, many people getting married that hot Saturday.  We waited for about an hour to take pictures on the temple steps!


But really, all in all it didn't matter that it was busy!  Hiatt and Jen were married and it was still oh so special! Hiatt was just all aglow and we couldn't be happier for him.  I am so excited for him and Jen to start a life together.  With our anniversary just being the week before theirs, it felt so good to hear and see them go through and make their own covenants and get to think of our own.  It was so special.


After pictures I rushed the kiddos over to the Joseph Smith building where the luncheon was being held. (Logan was a groomsmen and needed to stay for pictures)  There was a little annex room off to the side where we had set up a little nap area.  Tommy was a little of a wreck and Elsy had slipped and fell so her excitement for the wedding had pittered out a little bit.  I gave them lunch and settled them down for a rest and life got better for them real quick.  I am always amazed at how children's moods can swing so heavily so quickly.  They just are that way!  

I was so glad that Tommy fell asleep and Logan and I were able to enjoy the luncheon child free.  Natalie worked so hard to get that all figured out for us and we really did enjoy it.  The food was amazing and I ate myself sick I think.  It was fun to hear Jen's family talk about her and hear more of what she was like growing up and it was also really fun to hear some things about Hiatt that I never knew.  The windows looked out over the temple and it was so cozy being there with all the family together.  It was even nice knowing the kids were just in the next room.  I love being surrounded by family.


After the luncheon we had another nap time back at the hotel (for the adults haha!) and then it was off to the reception up at the This Is The Place park. 


Elsy and Ella looked so cute in their matching dresses.  They were in awe of the bride.


We spent quite a bit of the reception out on the lawn for the kids.  


What a beautiful location for the reception!  Everything was just so amazing the whole day long!


And can I just say, the ice cream cookies were to die for!


I thought we were all exhausted but then they turned on the music at the very end and had the funnest dance!  Logan and Elsy danced until she basically couldn't move any more.  Tommy stole a white rose from the fire place and while I don't have any photos, I do have some amazing videos of him jamming out with a rose in his hand and shaking it all around the place.

That night we drove back to Ogden to put an hour of driving behind us before the next day.


Sunday was the day before the solar eclipse.  Everywhere on the news and internet it said the roads  around the path of totality were going to be swamped with traffic.  We woke up extra early to drive and then basically had roads in this condition the whole day.  I really don't know what the news reporters were talking about.

Sadly our anniversary gift of pleasant children in the car wore off by lunch time.  Both kids were literally half sobbing half screaming as we grabbed lunch at Panda Express and went to eat it on the Boise temple grounds for our Sabbath.  I know it wasn't much but it was really all we could do that day.   We made a goal when we first got married to do all we could to avoid eating out on Sundays when we travel.  But when you drive for 12 hours in the car, you gotta get some real food.

We pulled up, lay our blankets and crying children in the grass and had a prayer.  Two bites later, there was calm and serenity.  The Spirit was able to enter into all of our hearts and help us feel peace on the temple grounds.


After our bellies were full we walked around and enjoyed the beautiful grounds.


When Logan and I first got married we lived in Nampa, Idaho while I did my student teaching, so our temple was the Boise temple.  Sadly, it was being renovated at that time so we had to go to the Twin Falls temple.  So this really was my first time there.  I love how each temple we go to seems to have its own themes and symbolism as well as style.  This temple had a wildflower feel to it that just felt so calming.


We stopped for dinner at my parents house before finishing the last three hours home.  Of course, the kids filled up on raspberries and blackberries with Grandpa.


Riley kept telling me her bun was "on point," whatever that means!  They had gotten home from their Oregon Coast trip only about an hour before we showed up so we were all a little haggard from traveling.  They said they saw a some of the eclipse traffic in Oregon, it was just going the opposite direction.  I was so grateful they brought home some crab!  Logan was pretty bummed he didn't get to go on the new crabbing boat's maiden voyage this year but we at least didn't miss out on the crabby deliciousness.

We got home around 10pm, after leaving at 7am.  What a long day it was!  I kept looking out the window and thinking, I can't believe the pioneers and all the work and sacrifice they had to make where I can now drive five minutes what they could barely do in a day!  I loved seeing all the sites and places they worked so hard to build.  I am so grateful for them.  We have an amazing heritage as Latter Day Saints.  I hope I can adequately teach my children about them so they can always remember and learn from them.

Update:
Here are a few more pictures from the wedding we received:














Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Goodbye To Friends

Every summer it seems I have to do a few weeks of catch up work because of vacations.  I am determined to not let it get me to far behind.  It seems like forever ago that we got home from New Jersey, but I guess it was only a month ago.


This is how poor Tommy felt the day after we got home.  He just was so emotional about life because he schedule was just all bonkers.  I feel like it took us over a week to get back to the somewhat normal normal range of a toddler's mood swings.


Only three days after we got back one of my very best friends, and neighbor, Andrea and her family moved to Utah.  We were around to watch their kids, though, while they packed.  I even got to watch baby Kai.  Elsy loved sitting by him and keeping him company.


And here are Tommy and his little buddy Nora.  They wanted my attention and kept climbing all over me haha!


We went over before they left to say goodbye and take pictures.


And of course they had a big group hug that ended in giggles in a pile on the floor.


We are going to miss them so much!  It was so nice to have a neighbor I was so close with and who had kids the same age as mine.  We loved all the spontaneous play dates, borrowing mayonnaise, sharing recipes, and chats.


This cute little muffin stuck a pony bead up her nose while I was reading the kids stories before naps.  She told me she kept sticking it up and pulling it out and then it just went a little to far.  She tried to get it out herself before asking for help and that just stuck it up even farther.  After a few attempts to get it out ourselves I decided we should probably go to the urgent care.  Once we got in the car Elsy was able to calm herself down and she realized she could still breath "through the bead" I believe is how she described.  When we got in, she just relaxed on the little bed and let the doctor fish it out.  She even smiled while he was doing it.  I am so proud of her for being able to see the positive side of things.


When we got home I took off our shoes... don't judge that I, in particular, have three sets of shoes out in this picture haha... and went in my room to contact Logan about all the happenings.  By the time I turned back around Tommy was right where I left him.  He had missed his nap and was just oh so tired.

Last year we went on a fun hike with the kids so we decided to go on another this year.  This one was a bit shorter because Tommy is to big to carry in the backpack now (without killing us) but is the sloooooowest walker in all the land.  He just always is trailing behind us oh so far.


And of course they insisted they bring their backpacks which, of course, Logan and I ended up carrying.


But it was fun!  We took our time and enjoyed ourselves.  The kids brought their binoculars and raced from trail marker to trail marker.  That was really our only hope to get Tommy the slow poke to get anywhere.  At least he did better than last year, where he lay in the middle of the trail and refused to get up so we had to carry him the whole way.


One day I couldn't find Elsy for a while.  She finally popped up from behind the pillows on our bed.  I just can't get enough of this giggly and softhearted girl.  She sure has a way of fin-angling toys away from Tommy.  One day I bought each of them a pluto from the fruit stand to try but forgot about them.  Logan pointed out that one had gotten all yucky on the top.  Elsy heard and came to see.  "Oh no!" she said, "Look what happened to Tommy's pluto!"  Logan and I laughed and laughed because, of course it was Tommy's pluto that was ruined and not the other way around.

The other day while driving Elsy piped up from the back and said, "Mommy, I can't wait to grow up.  I want to be a mommy just like you.  I will have babies but I won't live in the same house.  But I will still live in the same town as you."  That made me feel all the feels.  That is definitely my dream too.

And sweet little Tommy who is often quite rough around the edges, said to me last night as I was laying in bed with him, "Mommy I wanna keeeeep you." and he reached his little arms around my neck and gave me the sweetest little big hug he could give me.  So of course I had to stay for a while longer, even if it was after bed time.


We had an indoor picnic, because I ran out of bread and couldn't make sandwiches.  So we had leftover homemade mac n cheese.


And then I decided to make some bread.  I thought it was absolutly delicious, but apparently I was the only one because I ate that bread for days and still never got to the second loaf before I had to throw it out.


Logan let me go on a walk by myself one evening.  I was feeling a bit crankified and I think he thought a break would help me, and it sure did!  I went on a walk around Yellow Lake and enjoyed being by myself for the first time in many days.  We have been experiencing terrible smoke problems from the fires across British Columbia as well as other in our country.  The smoke made the sunshine an orange-ish color all the day long.  It really was interesting... but also yucky to have suck a thick haze all over town.  The walk helped me clear my head and realize I have just been trying to pack to much into one day sometimes.  And then when I don't accomplish it all I feel like a failure.  It was nice to slow down and just experience the nature around me.  I realized I don't have to do everything to feel accomplished each day.  I also found a baby mole on the trail!  When I got home, Logan was sweaty and the house was all clean.  What a sweetheart!

I also got to go to the temple that week and it helped me so much.  I really do love the temple.  Logan got me a book about temple symbolism that I have been reading and it was interesting to go to the temple with some of those things in mind.


Look at these two sweeties!  In the summer our ward has Park Days, where people sign up a park they like, one for each week and we all go together.  This time we met a new family that just moved to town.  I was so excited, let me tell you why...

So, I have been trying to put together a cohort of moms who are willing to do preschool rotations with me for Elsy.  But we couldn't find many people who were interested.  I was pretty bummed because I only had Elsy and two other little girls from last year's Joy School.  I was talking to my mom about it and she told me how she prayed girls into our ward when we were littler.  She said she wanted more girls in our ward so we would have friends and sure enough they got tons of new girls!  I realized I had never even thought to pray someone into the ward! Haha, that sounds silly.  But I knew if it worked for my mom it would work for me.  So I prayed for new families to come to the ward to do preschool with us.  The very next Sunday a new family showed up with a little girl just the right age!  And they agreed to do Mother Goose Time with us (which is the program we are paying for).  And not to long after that another mom from another ward said she wanted to do it too.  What a blessing!  I am so grateful the Lord answered our prayers.  And, not to mention, the new family is so awesome.  I am excited to get to know them better.


I started having Elsy have quiet time in her bed at nap time.  I realized on our trip to NJ that she was so much happier if she took a nap, even though she hasn't been taking them all this year.  Well, I set a timer on the iPad and told her to read books until it ran out.  She didn't read books, but rather just stared at the timer.... this is what happened.  Mom for the win!


I just love cooking with these two batter tasters!


We went to the North Bend Outlet Mall to get Logan some navy blue pants for his brother's wedding.  Logan had a blast. Haha!


Oooooo I just love these two!!

Tommy is quite the character these days.  You just never know what he will do next.  He walks around with a box on his head saying he is a robot.  He loves to make up names and words for things that make no sense.  His new word he made up and loves is "meemo mamia".  Elsy had a word like that, "Skuskada".  But Tommy just keeps them coming all the day long.  Gambambow was one, or bungobeeg.  I need to remember to write more down so I can compile a long, long list.

Tommy just said the other day, "Dad is my friend."  He just loves his daddy.  At dinner he turned to Logan and said, "Dad, you are my friend."  Logan said, "You are my friend."  And then Tommy shouted, "No I'm YOUR friend."  He doesn't have his grammar correct yet.  I will say to him, "Tommy are you my buddy?" and he will respond in a grumpy voice, "No, I'm DADDY'S buddy."

He is really into this whole grumpy talking thing.  He has learned to say 'sorry' when he upsets Elsy and says it in the cutest voice, "Sa-reeeee" and if Elsy doesn't respond (because she is crying from being hit or is just mad at him and doesn't want to talk to him anymore) he says it louder and louder.  This morning I heard screaming in the other room and rushed in to find Elsy rubbing an owie while Tommy was sitting with his face just inches from hers as he screamed "SA-REEE!" in her face as his was getting red and veins were popping out of his neck.  We had a little discussion about responses with Elsy, and that screaming "sorry" doesn't help things with Tommy.

One of the things I just love about him is he always is asking for permission or a question. But he does it in the most interesting way and I haven't quite figured out why.  He will cock his head to one side like a puppy, pucker out his lips and sort of wink and then he makes a negative statement, such as, "We don't climb up there"  What he is really saying is, "Can I climb up there?".  To which I either say, "You are right, we can't climb up there" or "Actually you can climb up there!"  One time he said, "Cats don't have bums."  But he did his little head cock and his lip pucker with the wink and I knew he was really asking, "Do cats have bums?" Haha!  That was a funny one to answer.  Another time we drove by a field of cows next to some power lines and he said, "Cows can't climb dat." but he was really saying, "Can cows climb the power lines?"  It has taken me a while to catch on that this is how he asks questions.


I decided to go buy paint (finally) for the bunk bed ladder (don't ask if I actually used the paint yet.. yikes).  When we got to Home Depot there was a kids workshop going on.  I called Logan, who was on his way home from the temple to come meet us.  He went home and changed and then we all had a fun time hammering and building little moving vans.


I was glad Logan showed up because Tommy was taking initiative and trying to move forward on his own a little to much.


We went to a park to pick blackberries but they just weren't ripe yet.  The park did have a splash pad, though, so the kids had fun eating apples off a tree there in the park and playing in the water.

While laying next to Elsy in bed one night, she looked up to me and said, "Did you know your nose makes a B if you go like this (traces the holes in my nose) only it is sideways."  No, I guess I didn't realize that. :P


I wanted to take a picture of her little freckles.  She has such a pretty face.


My friend Laura gave us some free tickets to the Seattle Aquarium.  The very next day Logan took the morning off and we all headed over to look at all the fish.  The kids are still into Octonauts and loved finding all the fish they have been learning about.



Elsy measuring Tommy.


Facepainting!


Touching the sea creatures!  The kids loved seeing the sea stars, anemones, octopus, and otters.


Afterward we had time to go walking out on the pier.


Sometimes I forget we live right next to a real city.  But I am glad I forget, because lets be honest, I am not a big fan of them.  But it is fun to do the tourist thing now and then.


(Elsy, Savanah, Issac, and Hunter)

Within only two weeks we had to say goodbye to another very dear dear friend, Laura and her family. :(

I can't tell you how bummed I have been to loose my two very good friends.  We had a little going away party in the church gym for Laura.  The kids all brought bikes and scooters, Laura brought her snow cone maker, and I made some cookies.


We lined all the kiddos up for a goodbye picture.  Just to sad! but also too cute.

Tommy has recently been throwing up his own, homemade gang signs every time we take pictures lately. I don't know why this has started but it is pretty funny.


Laura was my visiting teaching companion, which I think is how we started to get to know eachother initially.  Elsy and Issac were such good friends.  We went to visit Melissa, on of the ladies we visit teach, the day before Laura moved because Issac wanted too.  He really is such a sweetheart.  We miss him so much too!



And here is a little of what happens here at our place now and then.  Standing in the corner is how my Mom did it and so far it has been effective for us too!

Lately I have been working on trying to recognize and follow spiritual promptings.  It is something I pray for almost every day, to receive promptings, to recognize when they are promptings and not just thoughts, and then having the courage and strength to act on those promptings.  I have been doing this for a while and I am noticing now how often I recognize a prompting but lack the strength to follow through with it.  It has definitely been a struggle but I feel like the more I ask, the more I receive.  And I know I have a lifetime to figure it out, one day at a time.


And here is a little throw back I came across the other day, Logan taking a picture (in the bottom right corner) of us video chatting back when we were dating.  (Look how blonde my hair used to be! *sob* I never have ever dyed my hair and it used to be blonde and now it is brown after having kids)  After only dating in person for two weeks, we spent 5 months apart.  I have always attributed his diligence in showing me I was important enough for him to call me every single day helped our relationship kick off.  And it was also so good to just get to know each other so much through just talking for such a long period.  He used to set up video chat dates where he would send me things in the mail for us to do together while chatting, or lunch dates through video chat.  What a fun guy!!